Natural habitat: Bumping into gutters and blissfully charging over speed humps out the front of schools, kindergartens and creches.

Not likely to see: Dirt. The closest this mum or dad and their car will come to dirt is when they lift their child into the rear seat after a muddy football game.

Related to: Pram marching mum. One of the justifications for purchasing a vehicle that is more expensive than a similar quality car, with similar safety features and uses more petrol is to fit in the equally large pram. There is also a hierarchy related to the size and cost of the pram and 4WD.

Quote: Any of the shallow mums at Carsguide would suffice.

Role Model: Celebrities and any prestige 4WD (SUV) are the role model. Obviously the Becks are the gold standard. Or any parent doing the drop off in a BMW X5, Audi Q5 or Mercedes M Class. They can afford a big car, with comfort and safety features that you will find in a much cheaper car.

So far:

Pram Marching mum
Tracksuit mum
Wanna-be hippy mum
Corporate Dad
Martyr mum
Corporate Mum
Stay at home dad
Hippy Mum

Located in prime viewing within the two main auditoriums are the perfect facilities for cinema goers with babies. Comfortably seating seven people, each crying room creates a unique and exclusive experience.

My wife and I tried this once and I emphasise once. Being a man of high culture I convinced my wife to see Borat with our 3 month old daughter, with the plan being that she (daughter) would sleep through most of it.

If you think that THX surround sound advertisement at the start of a movie is annoying, it is really annoying when it wakes up a baby. To cut a long story short our daughter didn’t sleep and we tried every distraction technique possible, whilst trying to remain quiet (because another family was using the room) and enjoy the movie. The relaxing, escapism and entertainment that you get from going to most movies did not happen. I think we were more stressed after the movie.

Since then latest release movies have been few and far between and disappointingly, I haven’t been culturally enlightened by the movie Bruno.

Now personally I would never publicly admit to downloading torrents of the latest movie, I have just heard that some people, and parents of young families in particular, do this.

Mostly a DVD works fine but as readers of this post may have gathered my preferred choice of movie is not typically a quiet, educational documentary. I like action and comedy and the more car chases, gunfights and raucous humour the better. The latest Bourne something or other is perfect when the kids go to bed.

• Whilst playing football as a teenager a family dog decided to join in and tackle my ankle.
• Whilst walking on holiday a dog bit my ankle and the owner then yelled abuse at me for getting bitten. A fun few hours then ensued in the search for an out of hours doctor to administer a tetanus shot.
• Whilst running dogs have snapped at my ankle too many times to recall individual instances.
• I have watched a mate sail through the air and end up in hospital for x-rays and cuts. He tripped over a dog lead stretched across the path, in the twilight.
• More amusingly dogs routinely chase and snap at my ankles whilst I ride my bike.

These tales of woe have nothing to do with being a parent but I first became aware of dogs and kids just before becoming a parent. My sister entrusted the care of her 1 year old son to me for the afternoon. It was hard to explain to her how he ended up with dog poo all down his chin and jumper. She really didn’t want to hear that I was unaware that dog poo would be at the bottom of the slide.

The birth of my own child made me aware that our local playground was actually a pseudo dog litter box.  Dog owners liked that their dog could run round and round in the fenced off area, kick up chip bark and defecate freely in the corner. The park stunk of poo until the council put up a sign reminding people that dogs are not permitted in children’s playgrounds.

As I stated at the start I like dogs. It is the totally unaware, indulgent dog owners that I hate.

Here is some advice for all dog owners out there:

• Dogs are carnivores. They like meat. Little kids look very tempting to dogs.
• A dog bounding around unpredictably is terrifying to a child no matter how cute you think it is.
• It doesn’t matter how often you repeat variations on “He’s just having fun”; “He’s harmless”; “He loves kids” a screaming child is not going to be placated until the mutt is removed.
• Once a child is crying it does not want to pat your dog.

I have no idea what options exist for dogs playing and running and I don’t care. All I know is that when I take my children to a playground or park I will promise to prevent them from jumping on and biting other people; defecating all over the place; killing other wildlife; and destroying vegetation. I would be grateful if dog owners do that as well.

Natural Habitat: Stranded between the kids bedroom and the bathroom wondering whether to attend to the poo spillage, the child’s tears or search for new clothes.

Not likely to see: Out and about. These dads can’t dress their child and don’t know why their child would want to get out anyway. On top of that mum has probably worked out that either the child or dad would get lost out in the wild of the surrounding streets.

Related to: Corporate Dad. Both rarely pick up a power tool because last time they did blood was involved.

Quote: Well, you didn’t tell me that she needed to be fed whilst you were out. How was I to know what to feed her?

Role Models: These guys are in every movie and tv show ever made. They are to parenting what lice are to a dog.

• Tim Allen from Home Improvement.
• Homer Simpson from the Simpsons.
• Al Bundy from Married with Children.
• Ray Barone from Everybody loves Raymond

So far:

Pram Marching mum
Tracksuit mum
Wanna-be hippy mum
Corporate Dad
Martyr mum
Corporate Mum
Stay at home dad
Hippy Mum

The product website, Pixstudio, doesn’t try to baffle us with science, instead it is all about the design. Reassuringly the roller buggy is made of aluminium, plastic and rubber, it’s usage is alleys, parks and street and it will give “both parties a good time”.

Here are a few practical considerations:

• tiny little airless wheels are not going to glide over cobblestones
• the lack of steering means that to change direction you (and the baby) are going to need to seriously lean to one side or stop and physically shove the thing in the direction you want to go (this is called the “skateboard principle”)
• the “sportive” purpose sounds great and all but for safety reasons it is “not recommended that you exceed 15km/h”. That would rule out racing the thing down a hill in a park.
• It comes equipped with “hydraulic disc brakes”. These are most commonly used on cars, motorbikes and mountain bikes. All with the purpose of high load braking, often suddenly. Probably running at 14km/h and then jamming on a disc brake is not a good idea for a child without any head support.

Just about every male knows that if the present you give to your mum, wife, sister, girlfriend or lover is a cleaning product or everyday kitchen appliance your life will not be worth living. A whole other post could be dedicated to the distinction between a toaster (everyday and not an appropriate gift) and a coffee machine (expensive, potentially “gourmet” and therefore a good gift). However, for some reason it is 100% OK to get dad a tool or something to clean the car with on father’s day. We have all read the reports that males do less housework than women but where are the reports on the maintenance and associated tasks that men traditionally do?

The problem with the tools and backyards products being promoted as father’s day gifts is that they mostly lead to work and jobs for men. What is the difference between a power drill and a vacuum cleaner? A screwdriver and a duster? A lawn mower and a washing machine? They all lead to jobs regardless of the gender.

What is the answer? One thing for sure is that it is not scented candles, floral soaps or pamper packs. Mum’s can have them.

Obviously the name needs to sound “right”, whatever that is. But many people place great faith in the meaning of the name or the origin of the name.

A while ago Times Online published a list of celebrity baby names. Some of them are listed below and I have guessed at the reason for these names.

Satchel I suspect the conversation in the Spike Lee/ Tonya Lewis Lee household followed the Anchorman script:
Brick: I love… carpet.
[pause]
Brick: I love… desk.
Ron Burgundy: Brick, are you just looking at things in the office and saying that you love them?
Brick: I love satchel.
Ron Burgundy: Do you really love the satchel, or are you just saying it because you saw it?
Brick: I love satchel. I love satchel.

Kyd: Not only did David Duchovny and Tea Leoni lack imagination they can’t spell.

Poppy Honey: You would think Jamie and Jules Oliver would have better taste than to combine poppy and honey.

Moxie CrimeFighter: I don’t even know who the parent, Penn Jillette is, but he was always going to have issues when it came to naming his kid. If you had spent 20 – 40 years wondering why you were named after two cheap plastic objects wouldn’t you want to exact revenge on the name world?

Scout, Tallulah and Rumer: Bruce Willis and Demi Moore have named Scout after an action character they have played, Tallulah after a character in the children’s story book Maisy and Rumer after all the rumours that have circulated in their celebrity lives.

Audio Science: Shannyn Sossamon wanted to form a band but got pregnant instead. She liked the band name.

On a completely unrelated topic are mum bloggers losers? Yes you read it here but you could have read it here first. If the insinuation is that mums that blog are lonely are dad’s even lonelier?

For those of us who get frustrated with slow people, window shoppers and indicisive people.
Also the people that reach in & touch our little treasures with who knows what on their hands.
If you know what it’s like to want to go on a bloody rampage with your pram.

Natural Habitat: Any sealed surface. The busier the better.

So far:

Tracksuit mum
Wanna-be hippy mum
Corporate Dad
Martyr mum
Corporate Mum
Stay at home dad
Hippy Mum

Kangaroos, possums, koalas and even snakes are examples of native Australian animals that can entertain kids for at least a few minutes in a weekend. So how exciting would a bunch of Flying foxes be? Yes you read it correctly foxes that fly! Thankfully these rare creatures reside in Melbourne at Yarra Bend Park.

Well it was with trepidiation that we visited the Flying fox colony. The below image could easily be a video because nothing much changes during the day.

The 3 year old was nonplussed and the 6 month old is interested in anything he can put in his mouth, so with the bats being all the way up in a tree he couldn’t have cared less either.

Thankfully these kids are pretty easily amused. The 3 year old miss was pretty quickly off into the long grass, possibly looking for hibernating snakes because they look like great fun from behind a glass partition at the zoo. Simply standing next to a leafy branch was sufficient to entertain the little man. He did his best impersonation of a koala by nibbling some gum leaves.

It just goes to show that a kid can have fun without the purchase of a pointless product or expensive lessons.

Y water

At best, most children’s beverages contribute little or nothing to a child’s nutrition. At worst they are positively harmful to their health.

It is hard to fault this logic.

Y water is an organic, low calorie, functional drink. It is the first of a new category of “developmental drinks” which provide the vitamins and minerals essential to a child’s healthy growth.

Things have very quickly deteriorated into the marketing strategy commonly known as “bombard them with scientific sounding terms”.

Y water is also the beginning of the next generation of green. Not only are the bottles 100% recyclable, they are 100% reusable as a creative developmental aid.

Finally, some green washing will make you feel really good about buying this product.

Y Water places great store in the science behind it’s products so here is a graph to simplify the difference in the sugar content of respective products for anybody confused about the respective sugar content of water and Y water.

As can be observed Y Water has significantly more sugar and therefore calories than water. So it is baffling that Y Water is promoted as low calorie, it has a lot more calories than water.

Y has 4 different drinks in it’s product range: Brain water, Immune water, Muscle water and Bone water, each with varying quantities of vitamins and minerals and conveniently allowing varying marketing angles. For the very diligent parent Y water provides research papers to download and support their boasts for each drink.

• Evidence for kids drinking Brain water comes from a journal entitled: Journal for Trace Elements in Experimental Medicine.
• Support for Immune water comes from a section of a study entitled “Military Strategies for Sustainment of Nutrition and Immune Function in the Field”
• Muscle water contains magnesium for nerve and muscle functioning. This ingredient is supported by a paper published in 1936.
• Not surprisingly Bone water contains calcium – 10% of an infants daily requirement.

The science provided for these drinks is dubious but what isn’t dubious is that all of these essential nutrients can be obtained in their natural, cheaper form in fruit, vegetables, meat, wholegrains, dairy products and ….. water!

The green claims of Y water are nothing short of inspiring. Who would have thought that one could collect water in a factory, add artificial nutrients, tip it into a tiny rubber container, seal it with foil, place it into a box, ship it around the globe, sell it in shops to parents, have the parents take it home and you could “promote and protect” the environment? Again, water from a tap?